Yet there were many, probably hundreds, who were true believers, true disciples (Luke 6:17,20). From these, Jesus chose twelve whom He appointed apostles (Luke 6:13). These twelve were Jesus' disciples in a special sense, and became known as "the twelve disciples" or simply "the disciples" (Matthew 16:13; 20:17; 24:3). After the resurrection and ascension of Jesus, all the followers of Jesus became known as disciples (Acts 1:15; 6:1; 9:1), and later as Christians (Acts 11:26; 1 Peter 4:16).
The cost of discipleship
Jesus pointed out that those who want to become His disciples (whether in His day or in ours) have to accept His lordship in their lives. Usually Jesus will require different people to make different sacrifices, depending on who they are and what work He wants them to do. But always there will be some sacrifice. Self-denial is the only way to become a disciple of Jesus Christ (Mark 1:16-20; 8:34-38; 10:17-22,28-30; Luke 14:33; Philippians 2:3-8).
Just as Jesus carried His cross to the place of his crucifixion, so each of His followers has to take up his cross and be prepared to die for Jesus' sake (Matthew 16:24-26; John 19:17-18). Even if the Christian's discipleship does not lead to death, it will involve a certain amount of hardship, suffering and persecution (Matthew 10:24-25; 24:9; John 15:20).
We must consider beforehand what it will cost us to be Jesus' disciples. We must be prepared for a lifetime of commitment to Him. There is no place for those who make a start and then give up (Luke 14:26-33;). Disciples must be ready to accept physical inconvenience (Luke 9:57-58), to put their responsibilities to Christ before all other responsibilities (Luke 9:59-60) and to be wholehearted in their devotion to Christ (Luke 9:61-62).
Characteristics of the true disciple
A disciple is a learner or pupil, and the disciples of Jesus learn from Him (Matthew 11:29; Ephesians 4:20). But merely to learn is not enough. We must put our learning into practice and maintain a consistent obedience if we are truly to be Jesus' disciples (John 8:31). We give visible proof that we are Jesus' disciples through practicing genuine love towards each other and through bearing spiritual fruit in our lives (John 13:13-15,35; 15:8). This practical love extends beyond the group of fellow disciples to all people everywhere (Matthew 5:44-46). Jesus' disciples take His message to others in order to make more disciples, no matter who the people are or where they live (Matthew 28:19-20).
Here are some truths relative to Discipleship:
1) The truth learned must be practiced. It must be appropriated by heart, mind, and will, so that one remains or abides in the truth. Only then is one truly Christ's "disciple" (John 8:31).
2) True discipleship implies self-surrender, self-denial, sacrifice, service, and suffering.
3) The true mark of discipleship is revealed in (John 15:14).
4) Willingness to suffer for Christ is proof of discipleship.
5) The motivation for true discipleship: "for My sake and the Gospel's" (Mark 8:35). To lose yourself is not an act of desperation; it is an act of devotion.
6) Discipleship is a matter of profit and loss, a question of whether we will waste our lives or invest our lives.
7) Jesus turned to the multitude and preached a sermon that deliberately thinned out the crowd (Luke 14:25-27). He made it clear that, when it comes to personal discipleship, He is more interested in quality than quantity. In the matter of saving lost souls, He wants His house to be filled (Luke 14:23); but in the matter of personal discipleship, He wants only those who are willing to pay the price.
8) Jesus seems to make a distinction between salvation and discipleship. Salvation is open to all who will come by faith, while discipleship is for believers willing to pay a price.
9) Salvation means coming to the cross and trusting Jesus Christ, while discipleship means carrying the cross and following Jesus Christ.
10) What does it mean to "carry the cross"? It means daily identification with Christ in shame, suffering, and surrender to God's will.
11) It means death to self, to our own plans and ambitions, and a willingness to serve Him as He directs (John 12:23-28).
12) There is only one way of being a disciple, and that is by being devoted to Jesus.
13) Witnessing is simply telling people the difference Christ has made in your life. Sharing answered prayers should be as natural as sharing an exciting news item from the newspaper. Sharing your love for Christ should be as easy as sharing your devotion to the Yankees or the Knicks. It's simple to witness when Christ is the main focus of your life.
14) Unless we come together in the presence of Jesus, there is no place or base for experiencing the realm of God on earth. The realm of God dwells in the hearts and relationships of real people who are gathered by Christ for a new kind of life together.
15) The cost of discipleship has always been high. Jesus paid the price so you can have the right to become a disciple, but you must pay the price of becoming a disciple.
16) Conversion is part of discipleship.
17) People grow better together!